Monday, September 6, 2010

Should you bare your stomach if it’s not flat?



A friend of mine really wants me to do a "DO THIS" or "DONT' DO THAT" section in our blog and newsletter, but stressed on the DONT DO THIS aspect. And I can understand why, as many times I see someone in something and I wonder "What the hell were they thinking?"


So today I start with a question:



"Should ladies with a larger belly area "big gut" wear these kind of tops (midriff tops) with pride, or should they leave them to their leaner sisters?


Basically, is a muffin top ever acceptable?

18 comments:

iMichi said...

Hell No!!!There r other garments 2 facilitate dat. It is NOT a sight 2 receive di Beholder.

Anonymous said...

if ur stomach is hang over the top of ur jeans
then u need to cover the shit up

i don't need to see your jello....
when the song says swagger it was not talking about your gut

its a reference to your attitude not appearance ... look it up

Denise said...

No...sisters you need to check your mirror. If you have a big gut, don't try to flaunt it...get a grip!!! If you need to show skin hit the damn treadmill. And another thing, revealing your skin is not always sexy.

Kimberly said...

I'm all for the fluffy confident sistas wearing what they feel regardless of what other people may think, but me personally not stepping out unless everything look tight.

Anonymous said...

No it's not right, if you have the will-power to go out hanging then you should have the will to get fit, exercise if you wanna show skin. Another thing, get a full size mirror because I don't think alot of these women do.

Stephen said...

Walk out mi Fluffy DivaS.Talkup di tingz dem.If u hav di grip 2 grip.Dress it up.WohaH!!!A so it tan

Anonymous said...

I am not here to judge, if you have and want to flaunt it go ahead, what is not good for might be good for me ok!!!

Anonymous said...

sigh.. see, i think this is an individual choice, and everyday i see Admiral Bailey Class women flaunting that well fed look for all to see. Some of them stripe up like zebra.
So, i say don't do it, but i know some people won't listen.

Petra Johnson said...

I think that it's abhorrent and detestable. It should not happen because it's not right being 'forced' to look at someone's flabby bits. Get to the gym or get jogging in your local park. Keep things nice and tight, then you can flaunt it once you got it.

Anonymous said...

Leisa says HELL NO fi what reason.All that belly should be kept under wraps until the situation gets under control

Anonymous said...

I believe that for some persons weight was inherited and is hard to curve, however i think that the onus is on the person to exercise dignity and respect for one's body and self. "to be fat is not a crime but can be if exposed inappropriately".

Anonymous said...

yes she should , why because not everyone is perfect

Anonymous said...

That would be definitely No!, Hell No!, Hey Don't Do That You're Hurtin' My Eyes!!! If you get dressed and when you look in the mirror your belly is hiding the waistline, and/or button, or your belly actually rolled the material over on your jeans, skirt, whatever....the mirror just warned you, "DON'T SHOW THAT AUSTIN POWERS FAT BASTARD BELLY!" Let's keep it real, a mid riff top is not for you at this point...unless the muffin pan look is what you're going for. Should a man wear the James Bond swim trunks on the beach in public with a fat, hanging, hairy gut on display? That would be no, tell the truth...right ladies? Same rules apply we don't wanna see that hanging belly out on you! Plus we laugh at you when you leave, and tell our friends about you over a red stripe later on at the bar.

Anonymous said...

Flat Belly .. Bang Belly .. Skinny .. Fluffy .. it nu really matter lol ... man out there will Kidnap and marry anything once it name woman ..

Anonymous said...

I say if your comfortable you should wear/do what ever you want. Its your life. But I like when ppl take care of themselves and exercise never kill any1.

Anonymous said...

Obviously those girls that do it and bare not so flat stomachs, either feel sexy, confident or they are maybe blind, but as i mention, some man will always throw out a compliment at them hence justifying them dressing that way...

Either way, a girl does not necessarily have to have a flat stomach to bare it.. some fluffys actually pull it off quite well, and keep in mind not all men are attracted to flat belly skinny girls ..

Anonymous said...

most men dont want to grin on bones LOL need some fat in between
lmao

Anonymous said...

how yuh mean? di bone dem sweet! lol. Look pan Yendi, dat sweet, mi love dem bone dey!

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