Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Can you be "fluffy" and still sexy?

Whilst we are on the topic of fluffy divas..... Let me say that their is nothing wrong having a little extra padding. I have met some very sexy "fluffy" divas who know how to put themselves together that will rival any "slimmas".

So don't be ashamed--big is beautiful, if you know how to pull it off. Even the thinnest women need a bit of work before they feel ready to face the world in the mornings. Just because you're "fluffy" doesn't mean you're automatically disqualified from beauty.

Here are some steps to help you look your best. 

  • Change your mind set - Empower yourself..... Say it loud and proud....I am "fluffy" and I am Sexy.

    How you carry yourself, what you wear, how you speak and how you think about yourself,  all contribute to how sexy you feel and look. A confident woman is a sexy thing.
  • Wear bright colours -You might have been conditioned to wear black,  believing that it is slimming, and that it hides your body’s flaws. My question is,  why would you want to hide your body? You can wear whatever you want, including white. Try bright pinks, yellows and blues and  you will be surprised at the results.   

  • Flaunt it by finding flattering styles -Some women are of the mistaken belief that they can’t  look sexy if they are full figured. Throw out the over sized, unattractive clothes you have been wearing to cover up yourself. Dress sexy, show off your curves, and be proud of your assets.  Just bear in mind that there is a difference between sexy and classy, and sexy and not so classy.

  • Keep it tight - All women agree on this one: a little bit of a workout works wonders not only on your figure, but your overall health. Being full figured does not mean you can’t be fit.  Regular exercise and strength training  will ensure you are healthy, happy and  even more sexy.
As Dancehall Artist Pamputae said in her song....."No true mi fluffy an mi fat yu tink mi can't do dat"
Watch the music video here...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6JIEBi83rs
So be proud and know you are sexy too..

Question to you out there..... "Can you be "fluffy" and still sexy?

17 comments:

Cashee said...

Heeeellllll Yeah, I am fluffy and i'm hella sexy. I'm comfortable with who I am and flatter my body with the right clothes. Some women are not satisfied with being them, most of them want to be someone else. Even if you think it don't be it. God made us all different so our life can have spice. Y'all wanna go dulling it up, trying to look like each other. Make what you got work for you. If you cant like YOU, no one else will!

smileykeisha said...

i agree fully with cashee....if you dont love yourself how the hell can you expect someone to love you...

debby said...

Of course u can be fluffy and sexy at the same time.wen a man say "yow my girl mi luv how u fluffy eeno" he's simply telling u that u r sexy! u a happen! nuh man nuh want cu-cum-cum..lol

iMichi said...

RaAYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!Debby. NO Cum-CumCUm-Cum

Anonymous said...

First of all "fluffy" hate that word, pillows are fluffy. Full figured is a more apt descriptor for women of a "fuller" physique. And yes full figured women are just as sexy as skinner women, some even more so...when they do it right! I am a man that enjoys the beauty of all women no matter the body type, to me it's the way you put yourself together that makes the difference. Bigger ladies trying to do the latest fad style designed for a -1 sized model is the worst. Wear what is flattering to your size and shape don't hit me with the puddin' belly/bad body rolls because your clothes are too tight for you, not cut to flatter your figure, and shows you off in all the WRONG ways. And being a full figured doesn't mean you get a pass on not being fit either. I know quite a few full figured ladies that work out stayed toned and look fabulous when they get glammed up...they do what works well for them, and I get some great eye candy too!

iMichi said...

2day is a very Borrring day 4 me...I didn't c any 'Fluffy' chicks @ work. Fluffy 2da world! Fr u can mek yuhself look good- Good 2 Go- 4 me.Tho on my hot-Chick scale...the Fluffy women would tip di scale(of course).Or a woman with meat, sthg on da bone,u know.I don't go 4 bones(I'm NOT dat kinda species)-DOG

Camille said...

Yes!! You can, my sister is one of sexiest woman alive and she's fluffy and proud, the steps are correct indeed, I was reading and thought she was the writer

Anonymous said...

Sexy is in the eye of the beholder. Cuz trust, if I am feeling sexy...can no1 convince me otherwise.

Anonymous said...

lmao...but feeling that you are sexy and you being sexy can be two different thing

Anonymous said...

Whats sexy to me is not necessarily sexy to you. "Sexy" is relative, not absolute.

Anonymous said...

ok
look at this why do ppl dress sexy?
to impress people
how they dress is always ppl opinion not their own
it may seem like they make the decision but they made it based of what some one say or someones judgment

Anonymous said...

It always starts with the dressers opinion,,, in order to impress people a girl has to have a visual idea in her head of what dressing sexy looks like.... so once again it's all relative..

Anonymous said...

yah but if some one tell her it nuh look good or whatever
she probably weigh it more than her choice

Anonymous said...

lol .. yeah but if it look good in her Opinion and she Confident, she not gonna change it if somebody tell her it look bad... either way the sharks out there that prey on these types of Girls will just tell her all she needs to hear

Anonymous said...

Point taken.... but I can only speak for myself when I say I'm not influenced so much by other people... cuz 1 person go tell me that I'm sexy and then round fi carna... ppl ask "a wha dat mi have on?" So I have to do me for me....

Anonymous said...

yah but u still based it off ppl
remember wi are human
style wasn't something that was in planted into us
so wi take what ppl say and make it our own

Anonymous said...

I am a 35yr old woman who is 5' 2" tall and weighs 165-170lbs. I would be considered "fluffy" but I know i am sexy i know that when i put on my clothes i look good and i look even better when I take off my clothes lol

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